Tips To Help You Build Your Self-Confidence as a Photographer
Hello everyone! I am glad you enjoyed Thoughts on Starting a Photography Business, my first guest post last week. This week I’d like to talk about an issue every photographer faces at some point: self-confidence. Self-confidence is an issue that tends to leave a cloud over some photographers heads.
It’s difficult when you view other photography sites and compare yourselves to them. My advice is: STOP RIGHT NOW! Sure it’s great to see other photographers’ styles and read about how they have clients on a waiting list, but what beginning photographers seem to forget is – you are comparing your work to someone who has been shooting for 8 or 9 years. There is going to be a huge difference in your work. I had to delete so many websites from my reader because I just spent hours viewing other sites and wondering why my photos didn’t look like theirs. What I really needed to be doing was getting out there and shooting! One huge confidence booster for me was several months ago…
This family was dining in my bar {I’ve been a bartender for 20 yrs, remember?} and they had this most adorable little girl with the most amazing curly hair. She was so polite and kindly asked for “a side of ketchup to dip her French fries”. I kept staring at her debating on whether I should give her mom my business card. Finally after the prodding of the other bar staff I did. I saw the little girl playing with my card towards the end of the meal and thought Oh well. I tried; not thinking anything would ever come of that.
Three weeks later I received an email from her mom and found out she had checked out my website and loved my work and wanted to schedule a maternity session! Fast-forward to December and I received a note from her saying “I am so glad you came over to my table that night and dropped your card off . I want you to become my family photographer”. That right there was worth any compliment I’ve ever received!
It can be a long difficult path on this way to owning your own business but it is worth every bit of it. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. There is nothing to replace the joy you have when looking through your view finder and capturing this:
Here’s a few things I’d like to add:
- Do research your local area for photographers. Check them out and see if any are willing to mentor you or answer any questions you have. You will learn so much from someone who understands this business. If you cannot find a local one, find someone outside your area or attend a workshop. View it as a “weekend” away where you can experience the joy of being around others who love what you love.
- Read as much as you can. You’ve heard it before – READ your camera manual. Get to know your camera inside and out and find websites on-line you can learn from. There are tons out there – along with Mira’s blog here are a few that I follow -
Improve Photography, DPS, and Expert Photography.



- Learn to see the light – I never quite understood what everyone meant by that but slowly and surely I’ve learned to see the light. No, I haven’t mastered it yet but I am so much better at seeing it then say one year ago. You will learn to see it when you’re driving, when you’re out walking in a park, you will see how beautiful it is at dusk. I’ve read tons on trying to master the light but it finally hit home with this book: Chasing the Light by Ibarionex Perello
- There is cost involved in starting your own photography business: websites, business cards, equipment, etc. However, looking at the entire picture, it is still less expensive than start-up for other businesses.
- Speaking of equipment, invest in good quality equipment. I don’t believe it skimping here. I know it can get expensive so save up for it. I’d rather have to wait 9 more months to get a great lens then to get a less expensive one sooner.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Everyone is afraid of looking stupid but ask anyway. Chances are there are 3 other photographers who have the same questions.
- You will find out there are lots of ways to do things. I’ve gone into sessions thinking I should only shoot it this way but I find out – no – there are other ways too. It’s been a huge eye opener knowing that what works one way, will also work another way and some rules aren’t’ really rules at all.
Hopefully this article will keep you from making some of the mistakes that I’ve made. Photography is a profession where you are constantly learning so keep reading and you will learn something new every day!


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8 Comments:
By Mira Crisp 11 Feb 2012
Elizabeth, thank you so much for this wonderful post. Self-confidence is an important part of our business. Sometimes it’s very difficult to approach people to ask a question or to offer a service but if you don’t try it – you will never know what the answer is. The worse thing that could happen is to get “no” for an answer. And that’s not that bad, is it?
Thank you so much for this post!
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By Bethany 11 Feb 2012
Your photos are great!
By Mira Crisp 11 Feb 2012
Hi guys! I may have lost some of your comments left yesterday due to crazy spam attack. I am sorry if your comment is gone. To try to prevent this in the future, I’ve add a simple math question at the bottom of the comment form to help filter the spam comments.
By andi 13 Feb 2012
awesome post! thanks for linking up and I facebooked/tweeted about it to all my friends!
By Mira Crisp 14 Feb 2012
Andi, I am missing that Facebook like button here! Def LOVE!
By Ellie 14 Feb 2012
Another great post – I can totally relate to the lack of confidence you speak of. But I love to take pictures so will keep doing it and hopefully confidence will grow. I love all of your pictures – the wee ones all look so cute.
By lisa 03 Mar 2012
Wonderful post Elizabeth, and thank you Mira!!!